Raycon,
I just found this today since I have been away hunting

! I do have a spec sheet as well as samples of what material looks like when it is prepared properly as well as improperly. I also have a Wood Mizer LT 30, Logosol PH260 single phase and Nyle L200 DH kiln.
What I do is this:
I verbally inform the customer that I need to see the material prior to taking on the job and they are advised if the material is thick/thin or too wavy to send through the Logosol, that there is an additional charge. I charge $.15 per bd ft to surface S4S/VM T&G. If I need to preplane, it is an additional $.10 per bd ft and if I need to Straight line rip it to ensure straight material then I charge an additional $.10 per bd ft. I have had customers complain that I am being unfair and over priced and take their material elswhere. However, since I saw my material, I know the quality that is needed to produce quality lumber and I am not going to produce poor finished product. I also have contacter the sawyers who originally sawed the material and advise them of the poor quality of sawing they performed so they know that it will ultimately mean future lost customers. Most sawyers are thankful I have advised them, others are not.
As far as the issue of dry material, I prefer not to run material less than 10% MC without being kiln dried!
I also have a sign posted that states that I will not be held responsible for the quality of the finished material that is not kiln dried or straight when it arrives for me to finish. I also note on my final invoice, problems I encountered with the product such as loose knots, large knots, MC above 10% or wavy material etc. If the customer is adimate that I finish his material and it is too wet or wavy then it is noted in the invoice as to the reason for the poor finish etc.
Hope this helps and sorry I didn't see this post sooner!