1. Select the trees that show disease or insect infestation first. Then take the trees that have some sort of mechanical damage (broken tops, dead tops, scars, animal damage etc). Then space the rest to achieve your ideal basal area per acre (determined by site index, species) taking the weakest crowns first regardless of diameter. Leave healthy, vigorous dominant and co-dominant trees. Ideally your leave trees should have about a 50% crown ration ( 100' tree will have 50' of live crown all the way around starting at the tip top going down). This crown ratio may not be applicable in some stands, I have worked in stands that are very healthy but the average tree had only 30% CR and were growing well.
2. Not always see above, sometimes at least in Oregon a slower radial growth is preferred because there is a price increase for higher ring counts. This will depend on your local market. The fat open grown trees (like possibly the ones along your fire lanes) are often worth less out here, in fact too open grown (wolf trees) are nearly culls.
3. Harvest when the bark is tight. During the growing season when the bark is lose is the worst because if you rub a tree during harvest the bark will pull off in sheets seriously damaging your crop trees. Late summer, fall and all winter are best. Sun scald can be a problem in the summer if you open them up too much. Not to worry, it will heal and not effect your trees too much.