Guilty as charged .
I hunt them with any means legally possible , pistol , rifle , shotgun , muzzleloader , and bow . The pistol and bow are my favorites cause you need to be in smelling distance of them so it is more of a challenge . West Virginia has very a very liberal season on deer , I think you can legally get 12 deer a year and they are still a problem .
Maybe there is a local sporting club near you that has seminars for women . A couple around here have women mentors to ask questions and talk shop to. Another place would be the local gun/sporting goods businesses they seem to have a more knowlegdable staff than the big chain stores .I would try out all of them and then make an informed choice about which method you would like to pursue .